We’ve just about recovered from ‘Celebrity Traitors’ and we are plunged into the more run of the mill version - with a few new tweaks here and there.
I’ve never been much of a fan of ‘reality TV’. How anything can be real when you are being followed by a camera with a sound boom hovering over you is at least questionable. So when I first heard about ‘The Traitors’I was prepared not to be impressed far less drawn in. More especially when when the prize-winner is the one or ones best at lying, deceit and backstabbing. Are those characteristics worthy of reward? I have to say, though, that apart from live football, I can’t remember being more emotionally involved in a tv programme than the recent‘Celebrity Traitors’. I really was crushed when Stephen Fry got the bullet and mourned the loss of Jonathon Ross surely the best of traitors.
The thing is, maybe to some extent we all have the characteristics to be a traitor and we relate to the tv programme because it is giving some people the opportunity to let it all blast forth. Imagine my shock when a friend told me about a continuing experience in Church life which they described as being just like an episode of ‘The Traitors’. Really? But sadly this rings true for too many people. The knee-jerk reaction is to remind ourselves that the Church is made up of people. We are not perfect and therefore we have to expect the worst to leak out occasionally. But when it becomes a fixed pattern of behaviour we have to be concerned.
Reading through Philippians recently I was struck by these words of Paul:
‘Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.’ (2: 3-4)
This is a principle that Paul repeats in various ways throughout his teaching. A principle that should govern our personal relationships. We are called to value others more than we value ourselves. This is not something we can just decide to do, like a New Year’s resolution or a new fitness regime. It is the outcome of having Jesus as our pattern for living and depending on His grace to see that pattern established in our lives. In that same chapter of Philippians Paul goes on to say:
‘In your relationships with one another, have the same attitude as Christ Jesus.’ (Verse 4) There follows what many believe to be an early Christian hymn in which Jesus is portrayed as making Himself ‘nothing.’, taking on the role of a servant, humbling Himself as He worked out His mission to be the Saviour of humankind. It is in adopting this commitment that we realise Paul’s wish for followers of Jesus that we shine as stars in the sky in a world gone wrong. (Philippians 2: 14-16)
No room then for lies, deceit and backstabbing.
